He tried to explain and justify.. which is useless.. all me.. and my friends and my gf... all thinks that that's not justifiable!
He finally came to apology... but... wasn't really forgiven...He said that he didn't do anything out of the way or put in more effort to get things done for that girl... but...i told him that it's not about what she did... but rather... what u did as a man.. who willingly reciprocated...That suck.. she's young... and it feels like some hum sup lao beh beh.. trying ot be nice to some young girl......wth....I think it's even better if that girl is 23/24.. there's actually more reasons for him to make a friend...i know.. there should not be any limits and boundaries and blah blah blah...... but then.. this only shows how easily u can make a friend...His age of making friend the way he did was long over... and that now he has a gf... he has no right to go around flirting and making friends just like that.. Just like when i started getting serious.. i do not go online and start being friends with people... i stop all those contact i have online... See...I told him that it is normal to make friends online.. but not when u have a gf or bf.... how will the other party feel?! right?! and it certainly feels sucky that it was the time when we really did get together. and as though the relationship was in adequate.... sucky!
~AuRo`Na~
Sunday, October 15, 2006